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I've completely neglected writing for the past 4 months that I've been at UBC. I guess that's a good thing. I don't have the time. I love it here. I love the people I've met (and i've met so many), I love the campus, the city and my classes. There's so much to do here and only so much time to do it in. The first month I was here, I was frequenting the beach, right near campus. It was an amazing place to hangout at. Other than being clothes-free (always a plus for me), the water was warmer than it ever is at any of the beaches in San Francisco and cleaner too. Inaddition to the beach I was taking advantage of the fitness center, library, student union builiding, the clubs and their events and going clubbing downtown. Everywhere time leave my residence I run into people I know. I think I've met more people here alone, then I've met anywhere else in the time that I've been here.

Classes were more difficult than I expected. My opinions of them fluctuated over the course of the semester. They seemed easy in the beginning. But the midterms were brutal and the finals were rough. I haven't liked my professors as much as I would've hoped. I guess ratemyproffesors.com isn't always totally reliable.I feel relatively good about the new term. I've spent so much time trying to figure out my schedule. I've attended about 14 different classes, just to see what they're like. Comparing and contrasting. As of now, four of my classes require 8-10 page term papers as part of the course work. And I though two was a lot!

To spice up my social life and utilize time I would otherwise use by masturbating to porn or working out obsessively I've taken on several extracurriculars. I'm on the executive committee for pride (lgbt club on campus) and joined a waterpolo club team. I'm also in the process of finally getting a job. Mom told me to wait on it until next year, but I feel so lazy and bad about myself when I look at other people my age who are basically supporting themselves or on a super-tight budget. Plus, I feel too guilty spending money I didn't earn on booze or other things I don't really need, but like to have/get.

more to come soon.

As usual, the one thing that isn't quite working for me right now, is my love life. Still no one special someone in my life. There are a number of potentials, but my love life over the past four months as been rather dull.

Over winter vacation I had two interesting experiences. One involved two other guys, the other involved me as the flower being pollinated. The first one was interesting and kinda fun, but wasn't wild about it. The second experience was rather amazing and I'm hoping for more sometime soon.

At UBC, the closest thing I've come to in terms of sex, was a semi-orgy thing I had with three guys from pride (UBC lgbt club). I seemed to hit it off quite well with subject D, who was easily the most attractive gay guy I've met at UBC. He said a few flattering things during the course of the night to me. He asked me for my phone number the following morning when we were leaving to go back to our residences. I never called him. I guess because because I'm not accustomed to that. I usually wait for guys to call me. However, besides him being attractive, I didn't see much else to him that I really liked.

A good friend of mine was showing me a personal profile from a gay dating/hookup website. I looked through the website, briefly and without much thinking about it, created a profile. It's a good thing I did. I've already found 5 guys who live relatively close by, who I could easily meet up with.